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On a regular basis, Heart of a Lion
will profile individual children and adults from all walks
of life who have displayed unusual determination and courage,
kindness and generosity. These are people, in other words,
who have clearly displayed a Heart of a Lion. They are,
of course, Champions Off the Field.
Real Bravery
The Stephen Marika Story
May
29, 1997 will always be a date of special significance for
the Marika family of Poway, California. After his mom and
dad went to work (at the San Diego Zoo and at a hotel chain
landscaping department), Stephen, then 12 years-old, hopped
on his bike for a short ride to Meadowbrook Middle School.
On the way through a busy intersection,
the pretty spring day turned into a total nightmare. An
18-wheel moving van driver failed to see Stephen and the
two collided. Stephen survived the accident, but his left
foot and ankle were crushed.
In the ensuing days, physicians at Children's
Hospital in San Diego tried everything from microsurgery
to hyperbaric tank healing, but to no avail. Stephen's mother,
Diane recalls, "We wanted to do anything to make him
better. The foot was just pulling his whole system down."
"We prayed like crazy," adds Mike, Stephen's father.
"It got kind of scary for us." But the family,
including Stephen's younger brother Kevin, pulled together.
Co-workers, Stephen's friends and teachers at school, and
his baseball and wrestling buddies, all provided strength,
time and support. "We are truly blessed to live is
such a wonderful community," says Diane. "You
wouldn't want to experience this sort of thing by yourself."
And so, the Marikas and the doctors decided that Stephen's
foot needed to be amputated. The surgery, known as a Symes
amputation, took into account Stephen's growth plate and
other factors associated with his age.
What couldn't be known was how Stephen's
bravery and determination would help him heal and renew
his active, athletic life.
Along the way to recovery, there were
many milestones, from Stephen being able to get himself
on his own to the bathroom, to being able to climb stairs
on his crutches, to the major turning point, three months
after the accident, being fitted for a prosthesis with a
foot equal to his activity level.
Stephen,
after a summer of visits from his friends, a Padres game
and other limited activities, went back to school and received
a huge welcome. "We were so relieved," says Mike.
With a physician's letter to excuse him
from P.E. class, Stephen could have stayed on the sidelines
and felt sorry for himself about his situation, but he'd
have none of that. "The important thing was to keep
a positive attitude," says Stephen.
Heeding his own advice, Stephen returned
to his two great sporting pleasures: wrestling and baseball.
Competing in the 104 lb. division, Stephen became a 1998
Mid-Season Champion in San Diego/Imperial County Kids' Wrestling
Association and won the Poway Slammers' Coach's Trophy for
leadership, sportsmanship and performance. Later on, he
rejoined his Little League team, the Orioles, as the starting
catcher.
Says one of his coaches: "Stephen
was a real inspiration to our team. Even when he couldn't
play (because a staph infection and normal growth forced
him to be fitted for his second prosthesis), he'd come out
on his crutches and cheer the team on.
For sure, Stephen is a real inspiration
to anyone who must overcome a serious challenge. "You
just have to try to forget it when you get down," advises
Stephen, who now is thinking about becoming a doctor.
First, though, there are some more opponents
to pin and base runners to throw out stealing. This is one
kid you don't want to challenge too much.
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